Whole Milk vs Formula?

I had my daughter on both between 12 to 18 months because of this. Alot of people give vitamins and they are still picky table food eaters. Also, my daughter was milk intolerant until 12 months and soy intolerant to 6 months. She had to be on hypoallergenic formula (couldn't feed- supply problems- which I now know is due to an auto immune disorder of my glands) to 6 months and part soy and hypoallergenic formula from 6 to 12 months.